Friday, April 19, 2019

NEW BOOK LAUNCHED! Exercising The Brain Down Memory Lane: "A Guideline To Remember”

Exercising The Brain Down Memory Lane: "A Guideline To Remember"


An Interactive Book with different activities to complete. Not just for the “Common Illness” but for all of those who want to sustain, maintain and improve your mind. To find the strength to be the best you can be. To also keep your busy. 

Alittle backstory about creating this book. My Father passed away in 2018, prior to his passing he had an illness called “Dementia” which became apart of his life for 5 years. Dementia “is a general term for a decline in mental ability severe enough to interfere with daily life.” It affects your memory, it causes sleep deprivation which the term doctors will use is “Sundowners Syndrome” and it will also cause Agression & Anger/ Suspicion & Delusions/ Anxiety & Agitation. I’ve created this book as a way to train the brain to concentrate. You lose the ability to focus as distraction becomes a habit. Activities such as puzzles, coloring, daily reminders, appointments, etc. are featured in “Exercising The Brain Down Memory Lane: “A Guideline To Remember”. Here I’ve added a link directly to the book. 

Sunday, October 8, 2017

Self - publishing


Self-publishing – is the publication of a book by its author without an established publisher It means independence and it also means making mistakes, but the thing about mistakes you learn from them. As a self-published author, you pay the full cost of producing your work and are responsible for marketing and distribution. This means copyright, the finished copies, all subsidiary rights, and all profits are exclusively yours unless you use Amazon. You upload your manuscript to create space they provide you with free tools to help you. Self-publishing and free distribution for books, CDs, DVDs, and video downloads on demand. There are many sits you can use for self-publishing.

To date, I’ve used Createspace for "self-publishling".  As of right now, I have published four books through there site. For me personally, it was on the easier side to publish my books with their guidance. Now "self promoting" on the other hand, has definitely been a constant struggle.

Are you a self-publisher? If so, tell me about what it was like to publish your first book and the obstacles you went through. Was it exciting? frustrating? What was the process of getting others to recognize or become aware of your work as an author?

Monday, August 21, 2017

Excerpt from my upcoming book!

"September 2017"
 Create space will publish......
Richard Bellerose
LE PHYSIO THERAPEUTE
(The Physical Therapist)

Below you will find an excerpt from the novel's opening pages...


 

My name is Elizabeth Marie Daniels. My days are spent going on interviews; you see I would love to become an actress, to follow in the footsteps of one of my favorite actresses, Betty Davis. My nights are spent helping a friend by working at his bar. I work from 8 pm to 2 am bartending. You ask how is it that I can afford to work part-time? My parents left me a substantial amount of money, not that I have used any of it. Simply knowing that it’s there if I need it is a beautiful thing.

One day, I was leaving my agent’s office in New York City. I was on my way to the subway to catch the 1 o’clock train to Long Island. I was excited—I had just received my first movie script.

                        * * *

His name was Peter Issoni, a rich kid with a trust fund. You know, the kind that gets a new BMW every year, but rides around in a limo. His days are spent sleeping and his nights are spent partying. Today, Peter’s on his way to meet his dad Nick in New York City.

Peter stepped out of the limo and ran right into Elizabeth. Her script fell to the ground. He bent down to help her pick it up. They both reached for the same sheet. When they touched, it was like fire. They both immediately jumped back. Peter and Elizabeth looked into each other’s eyes. She took my script from him and said, “Thank you,” before walking away.

Peter turned to look at the girl as she ran to the subway. He took off behind her into the subway. The doors closed, and she was gone. How could I have let her get away? He sighed in frustration. Let me get out of here. My dad’s waiting for me.

                        * * *

On my way to my dad’s office, I kept seeing her face. The girl that ran into the subway. We will meet again.

“Hi, Peter, your dad’s waiting for you.”     

“Come in son, have a seat. Can I get you anything? Do you know why I asked you here today, son? What do you want to do with your life? You’re 24 years old, it’s time you joined the family business! Peter…” his dad was talking to him, but he didn’t hear a word his dad was saying. Peter’s mind was on the girl, the one who he ran into earlier. The girl he’s going to marry one day…

                        * * *

Elizabeth, you’re the only person I know that has millions in the bank and is still working.”

“Lisa, that money was given to me by my parents. They’re gone, so the money means a lot to me. Because I’m working, I don’t have to use any of it. Plus, I’m only working part-time, and helping out my friend. Lisa, it’s not like I’m working every day. In my free time, I can go on an audition.”

“How’s that working out for you?”

“I have an audition next week.”

“Elizabeth, you have the best life. I anticipate you being a big movie star one day.”

“Yeah, definitely. It was drilled into my head, by my dad, ‘you have to be you, and you must be the best version of yourself.’”

“Indeed. Do you have to work Friday night?”

“Yes.”

“We never get the chance to go out anymore.”

“We can go out next weekend—I’m off next Friday.

“If I was rich, I would be on an island somewhere with a margarita in my hand, laying back and having someone waiting on me. Or I would be living in a palace. No, a mini mansion. Or going on a shopping spree.”

“Lisa, just because I have a couple million in the bank, doesn’t mean I’m rich. You could buy a house and the money could almost be gone. Or an expensive car.”

“Elizabeth, you keep telling yourself that.”

 

“Lisa, I need to get some sleep.  I’m working tonight.”

“What else is new?”

“I’m sorry, I love you.”

“I’ll talk to you soon.”

                        * * *

            It’s Friday night, I should get ready for Richard’s bachelor party. What should I wear? Something that will stand out from the rest of the guys. Once they start drinking, things will get crazy. I don’t want to end up wearing someone’s drinks or vomit. My mom came out to the pool house.

“Mom, what’s going on?”

“Why does something have to be going on? Can’t I visit my favorite son?”

“I’m your only son.” You never come out here to visit.”

“That’s not true.”

“What’s going on? Mom, what’s this about?”

“Your dad really wants you to work with him. Peter, one day your dad would like to retire. He would love for you to take over the family business. He told me that he spoke to you about it the other day. To tell you the truth, he said you were in some type of trance. I know sometimes that when your dad starts talking, you can’t get a word in edge wise. But for me, you’re 24-years-old now. Peter, it’s time you began thinking about your future.

“I’ll think about it, Mom. Right now, I need to get ready for Richard’s bachelor party.”

“I love you, sweetheart. Have fun tonight.”

The phone rang.

“Hey, Richard, what’s up?

“I’m on my way.”

“My mom was just here; she was trying to lay a guilt trip on me.”

“About working for your dad?”

“What else.”

“Peter, maybe you should work for your dad.”

“I was thinking once I turn 30, then I’d work for my dad.”

“I’m sitting in front of your house.”

“I’m on my way out.”

“Peter, when are you going to settle down with Miss Right?”

“I don’t know. Richard, you’re my best friend, but just because you’re getting married, don’t try to marry the rest of us off. Stop! Before you go any further—I thought I found Mrs. Right the other day. I bumped into her.”

“I’m intrigued.”

“We literally bumped into each other…”

“Still intrigued.”

“I was on my way to see my dad at his office. I was stepping out of the limo; she was running out of a building. I think she had a script in her hand, maybe a movie script. I’ve never seen her before, so I don‘t know if she’s a movie star. But when we touched, there was fire. Feeling compelled, I ran after her, but she ran into the subway. The door closed and she was gone. I’m determined to find her. I’ve been visiting my dad a little more often.”

“Peter, are you telling me you’re in love?”

“Something like that.”

We walked into the bar. Matt, Steven, Paul, Mike, and even Richard’s two brothers were at the table.

“What’s up, guys? The bachelor’s here, let’s party.”

“Okay, we’re ready.”

“Hi, I’m your waitress, Kristy. What can I get for you?”

“Beer, tequila and rum.”

“Kristy, have you ever heard of a drink called birth control? “

“Yes!”

“I’ll have one of those.”

“I’ll be back with your drinks.”

I looked up and noticed the girl at the bar. “Guys, I’ll be right back,” I called over my shoulder. I walked over to the bartender and asked for a dirty martini.

                        * * *

“Coming right up!” Elizabeth was fixing the drink without looking up. “Here you go.” She looked up and spilled the drink. This is bizarre, how does he know where I work? Why is he smiling at me? She thought. “I’m sorry; let me fix you another drink. Sorry about that, here you go.” When they touched, there was fire. “Wow.” What is it about this guy?

She definitely felt that, she looked confounded.

He paid for the drink with a hundred-dollar bill. Predictable, look at the smirk on his face; he must be one of those rich kids. “Let me get your change.”

“Beautiful, you can keep the change.”

“Thank you.”

Sunday, June 11, 2017

My Favorite Passtime

Obsessing over my 5 favorite couples in Hollywood


Prince Harry and Meghan  -  The Prince and suits actress have been dating for a year now.  And already, we want them engaged and Married.  The UK and the US coming together. A perfect combination.  I enjoyed seeing the photo of Meghan and Prince Harry arriving to Pippa's reception in Chariot.  The best part was seeing Harry driving his lady to the reception.


Kanye and Kim - Our  King and Queen of fashion. Whether they're dressing up or down. No one can out dress the famous rapper and his reality television personality. I do believe Kim and Kanye West put Givenchy and Lavin on the map.  That beautiful famous life that they lead.  You can't hate on it. From Thailand, Greece, Montana, Bora Bora, Armenia, London, Domincan Republic, Paris, St Barts and Mexico.

 
Russell and Ciara - The quarter back and singer Mr. and Mrs. Wilson. What a fun couple. They remind me of old Hollywood. William Powell and Myrna Loy in the Thin Man.  The series is everything. I could watch them all day. What a beautiful couple. They welcomed baby Sienna Princess Wilson into the world 4-28-17.

The Weekend and Selena - The cutest couple. He makes her so happy. I've never seen her like this before. They remind me of Jennifer and Puffy, from back in the day. Jet setting around the country. Selena's Mom gave the couple her seal of approval on Instagram. I loved seeing the couple at the Met Gala. Love was in the air. Between the whispering sweet nothings and the kissing . I here the bells...

 
Rob and Fka Twigs - Love this couple. The hunky actor and singer are a low key couple. It was revealed they're engaged. It's funny, every time the couple's apart for a few weeks. There's speculation of trouble in paradise. The way they stare at one another, while they're on the red carpet. It's like no one else is around.

 

Who are some of your favorite Hollywood couples? 
 
 
 

Sunday, May 14, 2017

A Salute To All Mother's

     Happy Mother's Day! To all Mother's and Grandmother's around the world.  I know sometimes you don't feel appreciated through the years, but without Mother's where would we be?  You are an inspiration to all.  Mother's are the glue that holds the family together.  Thank you, for the sacrifices' you make.
     I know everyone's not as close with there mom like they should be, but look at it like this. You only get one mom. Love on her and cherish one another before it's too late.  Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. With me mom, I don't know where to begin. Though I can never repay you for raising me.  Through the years, my mom and I have not been as close as we should have.  That's due to me, not seeing things through her eyes.  She's gone now my little angel, rest in peace.  My Mom wasn't close with her Mom, due to her working all the time.  That's one thing I learn fro my Mom. To make time for my daughter. I guess that's why my daughter and I are so close.

Enjoy your Mother's Day!

Sunday, May 7, 2017

Passing Judgement on Others

     We're so quick to judge others. Take for instance, well before you would drive up to a corner or a light there would be a man standing there with a sign in his hand asking for help.  Now, we have women and there families asking for help.  I can remember riding in my car with a friend, pulling over to give this man three dollars. She said, "What are you doing? The first thing he's going to do with that money is buy some beer." Alright, I'm okay with that. First off we don't know what that man has ben through. The sign read: "I lost my job and can't afford to feed my family." You would think she'd have some compassion, for this man. To me, that means he's in a bind he doesn't know where the families next meal's coming from. So yes, he deserves to have a drink. I'm just glad they have Dollar Tree Stores all over the place.

     Me, I can say yes, I have passed judgment on this guy who's a veteran. For three years, he would be parked at this light.  As soon as you come off the parkway.  he was there with his sign asking for money.  Always dressed nice. He has a very nice van. With my dad being a veteran, I know what they offer you. Again, I don't know what's going on in his life. One thing I can say is, this veteran always has a smile on his face. I admire this man, for doing what he needs to do for himself. 

     I have a twenty year old daughter, it doesn't matter if there someone standing out there with a sign. She want's to give them  something food or money.  She doesn't read their sign. My daughter determined to help in anyway that she can. It's funny, we can learn a lot from our kids. Let's stop judging people.


Who have you passed judgment on?

Sunday, April 9, 2017

My Personal Life

     Let's see...I'm dealing with a parent with Dementia.  Can I tell you that's an illness I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy.  Take for instance, today we're dealing with a clogged toilet due to my dad throwing something down it.  We did every thing we could do on our end.  Oh, yeah, the tub clogged too!  Time to rent an electric snake.
     My dad was the coolest dad "a veteran."  The stories he would tell me.  They were awesome, from growing up on a farm to a cement truck driver, he made shop steward. That means, telling the guys what they need to do for the day and were the concrete has to go!  Very funny man.  He's been dealing with this illness since January 2013.  He's still funny at times.  Don't get me wrong, I love my dad. As my brother would say, I love you like "cook food."  But it gets hard times, sleepless nights, being accused of things I didn't do, the arguing, the cursing, his favorite word the f word.  "the list goes on...
   Then there's the family.  Siblings, are suppose to be a blessing.  My siblings, are a curse.  Always telling me what I should be doing.  Hey, why don't you do it?  And let me take a vacation.  Like I said, I've been dealing with this illness since 2013 what are we in now? 2017 Sorry for ranting and raving....


What's going on in your personal life?